The Leading Lady

Choose something she would enjoy but would not buy for herself — that is almost always the answer with someone hard to shop for. Cashmere sleep socks at $60, a baby alpaca throw at $225, a porcelain flower diffuser at $125. Spa boxes at $95 and $145 work the same way, because they give permission rather than adding a task. Avoid anything requiring a size or a strong scent preference.

Gifts for her range from $30 to $275. Under $60 covers a candle set, a reed diffuser, or a marble photo frame — right for a coworker or a small thank-you. Most gifts land between $95 and $150: spa boxes, coffee gift boxes with a French press, celebration boxes. For something significant, the alpaca throw at $225 or the Grand Epicurean basket at $275.

Stay with the home rather than the personal. A marble photo frame, a crystal candle holder, a glass tray, or a diffuser all work without knowing her taste in scent, food, or clothing. Gourmet gift boxes are the other safe answer, since they are meant to be shared. Every gift arrives with a complimentary handwritten note and no pricing inside.